my xh says it has nothing to do with attraction. He says he tried to work it out But couldnt, he says he had been unhappy for awhile. I think our marriage got OLD to him. Not in the bedroom, he will tell you that anytime. He says he was just tired of being responsibile and people expecting so much of him. I believe he is telling the truth, I probably demanded alot of him and he just got tired. I can understand that. BUT, what I dont understand is he is dating 25 to 30 year old women and not women his own age. He says they are no fun. (I always did what he asked, fishing, parties with friends anything, so I dont understand that part). The one thing I dont understand is this...he was seeing the 30 year old with 2 young kids and started really liking her and making plans for the summer at the lake. That to me is committment! Our son is 18, not 2 and 5. Why would he do this if he was tired of committment? Maybe you can shed some light on this for me. He even told the lady he would never hurt her and that he would be good to her.
