SC, I agree that you should just let it go. It's so hard not to speak the truth. But really, they are not hearing anything we say right now.

But you heard him right? He wants space. So give it to him, lots of it. Pull way back, if you can.

And dont be so hard on yourself. You are doing great in a difficult situation.

Backslides happen. It's ok. Dust yourself off and begin again.

Let the things he says slide off your back. He is in never never land.

Hugs to you.