I have often read your posts but don't have any relevant comment to post. Your sitch is very different from mine. If I think it'll help I post. If not I don't.
I do wish YOU well.
And believe you are doing well.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13