TL you are so right. It is hard. I have to remember that. It is my biggest obstacle to bringing my h home or one of my biggest.
I will look you up SC. I posted to you on your thread.
I got an unexpected call from h today. Earlier I sent him an e-mail updating him on some things he had asked me to do. I also let him know that I was taking d4 out shopping and out for lunch. She had some money from grandma and grandpa to spend.
H was just very friendly, asking me what I was up to. We chatted for awhile and then I said I had to go and get s7.
Now h rarely calls on my day off just to chat. So I am enjoying a new pattern emerging from him.
Have a wonderful weekend all!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"