so you say she knows you'll leave her if she did sleep with him even if it's over now and she has no more contact? Um, then if she wants to stay m to you (and the first text you found suggests she wanted whatever this is, to end as it was "not the deal" so maybe she wanted flirting and he wanted more or WHATEVER...) point is, if it's over and she wants the M to work, but the "truth" of an A will end the M, I guess I am wondering why she'd tell you...
PT, you said your w confessed to an EA, correct? But did she kind of know you'd try to understand or did you tell her you'd leave if it were true?
Transparency should be a given, but if this 'thing' is over, whatever it was, are you sure you want the details if some of them might end the m? And how are things now with you two, when you are not discussing this?
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
