POINT being, your wife is very likely to be trying to do the best thing she can do in this sitch. She is the one losing all support financially, she does not get to see the girls as often as you do, she does not live in a home like you do, nor does she have the job skills you do to earn a good living. But somehow it is you feeling sorry for yourself and it is you choosing to drink, not your wife. Ever think of what she has lost?
Yes, I can see that.
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Ever wonder if the complaints she made about you being negative, might mean she wanted to keep herself from going down the drain with the same negativity? I am NOT defending her A...but I'm saying I can see why she might want to save herself. And be happy. She made a choice she felt would lead her to more happiness. Now you need to do that.
I think that is her thought process also. But I don't think she is happy either.
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And am I really the only one who thinks that if you get your act together NOW and keep it up, the worst that can happen is your wife and daughters will see you in a much better light and the chance for a recon LATER will grow a lot?
Maybe you are. I don't see a chance for a recon ever. They will see me in a better light, that's for sure. As far as W and I, well I think the damage has been done.
