Congratulations on owning your own house! I'm shopping around to do the same. I keep forgetting that it's better for me to be independent of him, even if it means I might have a higher mortgage payment.
By the way... what DOES lwb stand for? Is there a story behind it? What would it stand for now?
Left With Babies? Luscious Winsome Beauty?
I swear, beta fish are almost indestructable. My son has one in his college dorm. I cringe seeing the decor they do for its home.
I love the joy you share in describing your relationship with your daughters.
By the way... what DOES lwb stand for? Is there a story behind it? What would it stand for now?
Left With Babies? Luscious Winsome Beauty?
Well... I say we have a contest (and, based on the content of the post above, and since she posed the question, I would suggest that Gypsy know's lwb's real name, so "lwb" as initials are out). Hmmm....LWB stand for:
Leaving Worry Behind Lovely Wobbly Boobies Look, Waltzing Beetles! Luscious Wowzaa Bootie Lonely With Booze Loused-up Worn Broken (it can't be that one!!) Lapping Whiskey & Budweiser (hmmmm... maybe...) Little White Bugs (ewww... blecky) Licking White Berries Listerine Whiffing Breath
Some on this board has witnessed this in person!!!
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Like Whatever Babe
Great attitude to have!
Here's the boring down low. It stands for "lady with baby". Good golly, I need a life.
Great weekend with the girls. They are amazing.
Found out xH is going out of town before I am. One up'ing me? Hmm, not sure. He skirts the issue BIG time, doesn't want to know where I am going, doesn't share much about where he is going. Sticky talk we had. I started to tell him where I was going and he cut me off saying "You don't owe me an explanation, just have fun". So, I didn't ask him anything about his trip, just said the same.
Won't lie, don't like thinking about him traveling with a woman. Don't even know if that's the fact, but blecky nonetheless.
The great mystery is solved but the riddle remains. Many times people choose things that start out to mean one thing and end up standing for something different.
If it's any consolation the thought of you potentially being with another man would be even bleckier for him. After all you are the mother of his babies which makes you sacred in an odd sort of way. He set boundaries.. and those boundaries free you. What he does and where he goes is none of your business, unless he has your daughters. And the same holds true for you. Where you go, what you do is something he is no longer privy to. It's all part of being de-married heading toward being single. Whoo hoo!
And if it's icky to think of him traveling with a woman, here's the sure fire cure... DON'T THINK ABOUT IT!!!
xH called me on my way home from work. He was at the house, had shoveled and wondering where we were. We were on our way home from his brothers (xsil watched the girls for us today). He asked if he could take the girls to dinner. I said sure, and told them I would bring them wherever he wanted to go. He said "I meant all 3 of you. Pick a place and I'll meet you there". Um......ok.
I chose a pub close to the house. We ate in the gameroom so the girls had a great time. We sat and ate while they spent xH's quarters. It was quiet, but nice. We chatted a bit about our jobs (both law enforcement on the federal side, know some of the same people), its a safe conversation. He bought dinner.
He is still in mystery pain (front right side). Has been to the doctor, but isn't talking much about the results. I tell him to feel better, and leave it at that, as its obvious he isn't comfortable sharing. Doesn't want to burden me, doesn't want me to care, who knows.
He got us in and settled, started the girls' bath and fled. Nice enough, but just a weird night.
