That's the thing, I don't want to trash their dad, but I also didn't want to suggest that it was ok to be married and have a girlfriend. I wish I didn't have that kind of thing to worry about!
So my L just called as I was taking D9 to the gs trip. She will talk to me monday am. OW's H called my L today and was talking to her. I will get more details on Monday she says. He was apparently asking ?s like did my H admit to the affair in deposition (yes, and in the hearing he said who she is also). Their mediation apparently didn't work out and they are going to trial. Ok, my first thought was poor guy, he's basically in my shoes, I'd like to help him out anyway I can. But then, my 2nd thought is is that the right, ethical, Christian taking the high road thing to do; to help OW's H in his D settlement (if that's what my L or OW's H wants me to do)??? Any ideas? Knowing my L she will want me to help out her H, and hurt the OW in any way possible, but I wanted to get some ideas from you guys who have more understanding I think than my L does. I mean legally I will follow her advice, but I trust your life advice more than hers if that makes any sense. Karen
