Hey Cinders....glad to see you are doing well. GO enjoy a movie and just realize things will work out exactly as they should.
Take care and have a wonderful weekend!!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
Not sure how you feel about my stich and not sure if should matter, but I want you to know that YOUR posts have helped me. Thank you for that and glad to have you back and posting good stuff once again.
I still mess up, and this stuff is hard. It helps to find people here who understand, have compassion and even make some of the same mistakes. Today I did something to annoy my H, because he called his ow (whom he was on the phone with right in front of me) 'sweety' and I was about to stick my finger in my mouth when I noticed my D10 could see me, and I stopped dead in my tracks, knowing that it was too late. H was angry at me for it. He left angry. I am the fool who then apologises and even tries to bring across a point to him about it having hurt to hear him call the ow that right infront of me, but then found myself in the 'I think, no I think' battle. We each see this all from our own point in life and right now, many of us LBS's are in a totally different place to our MLC spouses....which makes many many conversations virtually impossible. I should have known this after nearly 3 years of this, but somehow I still seem to make the mistake of thinking one of these days H will understand me and maybe even agree. What a fool I am.
Anyway, long story short, thank you for having been the type of person to say it like it is and yet have a caring character that has helped so many of us, come to terms with things.
Glad you're back. Take care
Thank you. I don't know your sitch well enough to comment on it but I can tell you this regarding the area above that I put in bold: One day he might. Should it still matter so much to you that he does, no. Because that would seem to mean you're not getting a real life for yourself - even after 3 years. But again, I don't know your story well. So just let me remind you to look out for yourself. Do that and someone WILL love you and be crazy about you again...and the first person might even be you
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
thanks for taking time to drop in. Kids are happy and doing good. Most important thing ! Our dog is such a sweety, he's happy fellow and we all love him to bits.
AmyC, thanks for dropping by, your posts have inspired me through all these years I've come here. x
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
my D10's boyfriend (very innocent) broke up with her this week, or so she thought as it was a misunderstanding in the end...
H told her to dump him, that if a man is not willing to stand up for his love for you, you should dump him and tell him to go away and not to feel remorse over such a loss.
I listened, but could not believe my ears.
I should have told H to just get out of my life...
I couldn't ...we have kids.
I guess sometimes the right thing to do isn't possible.
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
They can dish it out but would not/could not take that advice. LOL!!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
