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Ironically, now that we're getting divorced is when she actually has the backbone to push me to get help.


Tell her that.

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She said that nevertheless her intention is for me to eventually move out.


Tell her to "f off" on that one.

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so she can document any relapses I have


Have her keep a document of when she f's the om for you.


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Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

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