Once someone stablizes...I tend to leave them alone. I challenge the new guys to see if they have the mettle to do this and leave them alone once a few posters find them.
Its also about being able to relate to a person and if you think your advice matches what they are going through.
You, I think of Frank and FIB and Sleeper and Fix...possible Ral a little bit of Jeff.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
