Yesterday was a fairly good day. H picked me up for mc from work. He had s7 in the car. Now I had already lined up child care. H said he didn't want to stay with the sitter.
On the way to mc I wispered to h, couldn't you have made a stance and said you will need to stay with the sitter. Well that comment set h off. It was the first thing out of his mouth at mc.
H felt undermined, telling him what to do. He said the decision was made no reason to say anything. This is a big issue for us and we will need to work through this.
For me is was just a though that fleeted in my mind and I spoke it out without thinking it through. Just like you would have a conversation. I think my h goes to a bit extreme, like it sets him back for miles when I say these types of things.
This I am sure will need to be discussed more in mc.
H took me and the kids out for dinner. He gave me a nice big hug and kiss before he left and said see you Sat night.
I am going shopping for a new mattress today. H said Glam go buy us a new mattress for our bed. Hmmmmmmmmm!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
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