Got up this morning and got the kids ready. Eventually she got up and helped with that. Kept things very calm(as I was usually a timebomb in the am). As she has been going out to girlfriends/going to bars I politely asked if she had plans tonight. She said no, but I know that can change in a moments notice if she gets emotional or feels trapped.
We will see how tonight goes. I will remain silent today at work.
As I left I now seperate myself from her, no hugs, no kiss, no ILY, and I either give a polite wave or something similar. She told me to have a good day and I left.
So hopefully this will draw her towards me over time.. Any other tips would help.
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch
