Thanks. Although my posts are 'in pain' my real life is not..per se. I still have all the difficult financial issues that everyone else has when they go thru this, but, my pain is inner....and for my kids now. I am fully ready to split from my STBXW. She is angry...cold...unable to move on...vindictive....sulking...punitive...uncooperative...incommunicative...

Uh..need I go on? lolol

The behavior is immature. Outside of the paperwork, I have done NOTHING to make her life miserable on a daily basis. I cook, do her laundry, buy groceries and include things she likes. I talk to her, text her...etc.

I get nothing. I expect nothing. Most women, IMO, on this board, by now would be 'functional' within the bounds of a marriage that would be about to end.

I am ready to split. I am preparing mentally to accept that I will have to give up my home. I have NOT YET coped with the fact that I will not see my kids everynight. HOWEVER, I do NOT fight it when I get home and there are no notes where they are. I accept that have time with mom.....I look at it now as 'not my night'...and I do things for me or get work done and relax in the quiet.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;