I'd say keep doing what your doing. Your doing good. I said above I didn't think she was totally done and to say so much in such a way I agree. Maybe you changed a lot (we all do) to something she didn't really like but you are now showing her that person she fell for in the first place.
hold it together as you are and if you feel like bursting, excuse yourself as it sounds like your W would not have a problem with that and get away for a bit, spill your stuff on here or to a close friends and regain yourself before going back.
