DA Club II

[silvagod]

Here is the follow on....we have managed to lock one already

Keep up the good work everyone!

[Startingover2]

New day...determined to have a better weekend than what I have had.

[JDOllie]

Day number 5 dawns with the sun shining, and we're actually having a day above freezing!

Back to 25 next week or so though.

[silvagod]

I thought Florida was always warm? lol.

SO2, the weekend will be as good as you make it. Don't forget, it's how YOU react or deal with situations that makes your mood. It's up to YOU to be happy about things. A matter of perspective.

OO, that is SO easy to type, hard to do though.

[Startingover2]

Ok, here is my goal for the weekend. I also posted in my thread about it as weekends is when he makes me looney!

After his visit in the morning with baby I am going to turn my cel phone off and tell my kids they can contact me on my house phone. That way I can put some distance there. Before, if he started texting I could tell he was alone. If he disappeared I could tell he was with OW. It also keeps me from hearing the ILY, I miss you etc. when he is drinking.

[silvagod]

Good for you SO2.

I did a little 'naughty' tonight. I sent W a txt, just "BOO, did I make you jump?. lol"

I told her the other day that I would stay in touch and apart from the 'emergency' with S23, I have maintianed NC for 12 days.

Forgive me?

Anyway, I am not expecting a response, in fact it will prove I am correct in my belief if I DON'T get one.

Here's hoping!

[Startingover2]

Well...it was just a little slipup silva. Pick up and go on. Glad you are not expecting a response as she probably won't.

Post here when you are feeling like you want to reach out to her. Have a great weekend.

[silvagod]

Thanks SO2,

I don't think she will,I have come to the conclusion that it's dead in the water. The txt was really just me dipping my toe in to see if the water is cold.

It's FREEZING. :P

Onwards and upwards!

[Startingover2]

Not going to think. Not going to think! This may be hard to follow, bear with me.

Uggh...my son's friend is here. His ex stepmom is OW. I just heard him on the phone with his dad (OW's exh) asking if he was going to pick him up when he picked up the boys (OW's kids) today. So.....that means OW and my exh will have the whole night to themselves. I have mental pictures in my head.

I hate this. I cannot get away from it.

[cz946]

Help! Its been 7 days since I initated contact with XW. She has txt or emailed me several times. All her gf are going out tonight. Just founf out she isn't going. I'm thinking she must be going out with OM(just friends, yeah right). She is going to call me in a few minutes to discuss d report card. I need the strength to not ask what shes doing this weekend. D is falling behind in school, and its mainly because of the divorce. She is just not getting the attention she needs, and spends way to much time in daycare due to our jobs. Was so much better when we lived together.
Guess I'm really missing her, but I no disengaging is best, just need strength.

Thanks, CZ