Another thing that I'm confused about was periodically, she asked if I had talked to my therapist/counsuler. I do tell her when I do and let her know what I said. This morning when we were waking up, she had asked again.
I told her I did to talk about what happened the other nite. She immediately got defensive and mentioned that we had each had a couple of drinks that nite. Afterwards, she was pretty cold.
Guess that's another backslide.....
Afterwards though, I had asked if she would be interested in taking a day off together. She responded that she think she should be able to work out some time with her mom to watch the kids so we can go out.
Not sure how to interprut that one......
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13