Going to court for the motions can be cancelled with the drop of a hat. The trial court date can be postponed once.. at least that's what I was told.
How's the apartment hunting going? This works in your favor to get moving on that.
Figure out what is important to you. Hold to it. Throw her a bone and get it over. If I could have done that.. goodness... I'd have cash in the bank, stocks, bonds, a healthy 401(k). Folks urged me to do that, but I didn't know how to separate the emotion from the business aspect of the process.
The $600 less.. how much of a difference does that make compared to the per hour cost your attorney charges? Look at the big picture.
