Hi PM. I've just been catching up on your sitch. I'm really sorry I've not been past in a while. I think I've maybe been a bit too self absorbed in my own problems. You've been such a strength to me though and I'll appreciate that more than you'll ever know. I even noticed you trying to rally up some support for me in your own thread. This to me speaks volumes about how good a person you are. Thank you.

As for your sitch, it sounds like you are doing amazing. I think you seem to be in a good place right now. the extent to which you've improved yourself is an inspiration to us all. I know you still haven't reconciled with your H but in my mind, there's not a single thing you could do more than what you already are doing to better your chances. I'm pretty sure your H must be noticing changes in you. God, I've noticed changes in you in the relatively short time we've been posting to each other and I live on the other side of the world. You mentioned that there was no harm in going on as you are and just waiting to see how your H progresses in his growth. I totally agree with you here. You're not pinning all your hopes to your M now but you still don't want to rule it out completely. Very wise IMO. You and only you will know when enough is enough and it's time to move on.

You're doing fantastic. Never stop smiling. (((PM)))


Me: 32, Wife: 22
Son: 2
Married: 2 years
Separated: January 5th 2009

Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.