I agree with all of you!! 25 years, no problem telling your S22, I'm into getting all kinds of opinions. I have never seen nor talked with this woman. I think this whole thing is a game to her & she has been married at least 3 times before my H.
I feel her reasoning for emailing me about the money was to get me to respond & see if I had the same email. Last Aug he/she emailed me & wanted me to send him something to let them know that I refinanced the house in my name. I didn't respond but the email came in both their names & his last name. I believe it was her way of letting me know they were married. Since I didn't respond to that I guess she knew that I would respond if they were going to short me 500.00 & I fell right into that trap! Now I wish I had not emailed back & just waited to see if they would short me the money. She is evil! I believe she wanted to send something hateful, not sure why I haven't done anything to her. Although, I did really well in the D settlement. As my H said, I drained him, but look what he did to me!!! Anyway, I also did lots of snooping & found out about her & when I wrote my H a letter last Jan. I put in that letter that she had been M at least 3 times if not more. A few years ago my H tried to talk a friend of ours out of marrying a woman that had been married 3 times, my H hates stuff like that & up until I gave him that letter, I don't think he knew how many times she had been M. B/c he asked me how I found out all those things & did I hire someone. Well, I did hire someone but I didn't tell him, all I said was I did my homework which I found out more than the PI's did. They couldn't find out anything b/c she was in another state. Mostly what they did for me, after I found out her name/address/phone number they ran a report on her.
I just have a strong feeling that things are going south for them. Why in the world would she write something like that!! I'm sure my ex wouldn't do it!!!
Here is what my cousin said:
I would hate to be this woman and know I would eventually have to face God and be held accountable for my sins, especially against one of God's children.
I will not email her back, I will not stoop to her level. I hope I do find out about them. I don't know if he will be able to face me after all of this but I hope he will. I guess only time will tell.
Thank you all for being here & your support. So far no drama tonight nor anymore emails from that evil person. Of all times, I'm still grieving over the loss of my precious dog & then this!! But you are here for me & I so appreciate your advice & input & it doesn't bother me one bit if you tell someone else. Like I said, I love getting these opinions. I've never in my life dealt with anyone as hateful & mean as this person is & I actually kind of feel sorry for my ex at what he has gotten himself into. SCARY
