Sorry I made you worry. I should have posted... been going thru stuff. I have been opening my eyes more. I am doing really well actually.
My H has been at an all time low , in feeling unloved by me.
When he talks to me , I will even sometimes think my God Cinco complains about the same stuff!
I am not like your Wife ....in that I was not happy with the way things were but had no real tools for change. I was walking around looking for solutions... I am the solution. I need to value myself and do all the things S&A has been telling me for a long time. I just wasn't getting it.
He is still far from perfect... but I have accepted that and looked with in. I wish I would have posted the transformation more here. Anyway... I am finally doing what I threatened for years on here. Almost 3 years later. Loving myself and healing and growing.
