So when he blames you for something, just keep saying "I agree. Now how do we fix this moving forward?" That will probably throw him for a loop if you keep it up.
At one time I thought about getting a job at the school to be with my kids to. But thats not an option now. But ya, that would be cool. I'm glad you are able to do that. I'll bet your daughter is a cutie. I know mine are.
It sounds like you are really starting to take control of the situation and pulling him in the path you want. Thats great. Keep up the good work. I like it.
There may be real hope for your marriage. Now if he can just do away with the bottle, that would greatly improve things.
I'm glad for you Mel and we are always here for ya,
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...