Well, I had a db coach session today. Wanted an opinion about all this. Guess what, she told me not to tell h to leave for good. She said to greet him when he comes home as if it doesnt bother me at all.
Bet you all didnt see that one coming, did you? Me either. I said to her, but he has been doing this for a long time. Maybe the last two weeks its been more official. But what does he see me as - a doormat. She again said I should not tell him to go - just act as if I am moving forward. Ask him about his week, tell him about mine.
So, there you go.
But I know what I have to do. I just pray I have the guts to do it.
FIB, thanks for posting. And no, I do not have a marriage now. And I am sure he views me as the wuss that I am.
