Thank you for popping by and for asking how I am. I am feeling better today. Yesterday I was coughing quite a lot but today it was better. So hopefully, my cold will be over soon and I will be able to go to the Jazz concert next Friday.
I know I should not let my guard down. My H's bad mood is "due" again and I do expect a nasty mail soon, although there is no reason for it. We are nearing the end of our D process and D should be final in about two months if H still agrees to it. In fact, he asked me how it is progressing, so I guess he will go through with it this time.
The weather here is terrible at the moment and I am staying in my cosy home. But I am getting a bit bored and am looking forward to the Jazz concert. I might ask another friend for afternoon tea again. I enjoy that quite a lot.
I have been so bad about keeping up with everyone's situations but I am glad to hear you are feeling better.
I hope your weather gets better--wish I could send you some. S18 told me it was almost 90 degrees yesterday!! Normal is 68 degrees!!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Hi Cinders and BND, Thanks for popping by and your wishes. Yes, I also wish we lived closer. I am sure we could have lots of fun.
Unfortunately, my GF was not able to come for tea and I was not able to contact another one. So I had tea my own and watched the Inaugurational Ceremony .
My cold is getting better and I felt OK today. I don't know why, but I guess it has to do with the days getting longer and the rain stopping for a while. Maybe it is also because my H is polite at the moment.
I am trying to move on but I still find it very hard.
You are not at all bad about keeping up with everyone's situation. I always think that you post to so many of us. I just cannot imagine how you can do it all and look after your family and the household as well, and on top of it all you have a job and the on-line selling!!! I really don't know how you do it all. So please don't feel bad if you don't have the time to post.
H wrote to me re D. He also mentioned that it is strange that ex OW rather chose to live alone in a terrible place than with him. That everybody is so poor where she lives apart from H's oldest friend. I should have rather married him!
I really can't imagine why he wrote that I should have married his friend. I replied that I would have never wanted to marry his friend and that I did the right thing. He then replied that he thanked me for saying that.
He also gave me a compliment about something I did.
I am just waiting for him to change his mood and get angry again about something.
Maybe he wanted to hear your reaction about choosing his friend over him.
I know, you are waiting for the anger to settle in once again.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Maybe he wanted to hear your reaction about choosing his friend over him.
I guess he was. I just cannot imagine what goes on in a MLCer's mind!
It was a more pleasant day today but still not nice enough to go for a walk. I noticed though that the birds are already singing if it does not rain. Obviously, they think spring must be around the corner - I do hope so.
Tomorrow it is supposed to be a sunny day and I intend to do some retail therapy. I wanted to do that for some time but my flu stopped me from doing it.
I received a reproachful e-mail from H today regarding the dealing with some business matter (note: NOT ANGRY, just reproachful!) He asked me to do something which was not necessary at all as I already forwarded him the answer. I am worried about him since he does not seem to remember his actions.
He also asked me the same question at least three times and I already answered it twice. He does not seem to read what I write!
A few weeks ago I asked him what will happen to the things he has at his place and he replied that he does not care about them. They can be sold with the property. A few days ago he said he would have them shipped!!!
He is still in lala land and does not know what he wants.
Although I feel a lot better I did not go shopping after all as it was a cold and miserable day again. I might go tomorrow as I am going to the Jazz concert to the same town in the evening. I really don't feel like going out into the cold air. I hope winter is over soon. I already heard the birds singing the other day which is a good sign.
