"When you are centered and have all of this positive energy to give, what are you supposed to do when your gift annoys your partner?"
If that truly is the situation, if you finally know that you want to give from abundance (rather than need from emptiness), then you move on. You find a woman that does want to feel your energy and be "loved open", and you give your wife the equal freedom to be loved by a man on her own terms.
That is easy to state and even to understand - its much tougher to live by - but ultimately its you that has to make that decision.
S&A
"A man can be destroyed but not defeated" - from The Old Man and the Sea, by Ernest Hemingway.
Which I take to mean that every man has within him a spirit of relentlessness and optimism. Its already there; he just has to cultivate it.
