Yes that's what I'm asking. Should I or should I not trust her. The problem is I also found on her old phone dirty talk. Also he sent her a picture of a penis. Can't tell you if it's his or not but just the fact she said it was harmless until he tried to pursue more. But she has avoided certain text's and lied about them. The next day after I found the original text's she text him twice and denied it. Until I showed her the text messeges on our statement. Plus, the night I found the original text's I accidentally text him a reply she had already had text him. Which was me too? His reply back was when and what time? I asked her what that meant and she said she didn't know. Then I called him and asked him how long he has been sleeping with my wife. He said I was trippin and hung up. If there wasn't anything going on then he would've tried to convince me so. Then later on that night he text's her phone to call him back on the other number which turned out to be his work cell phone. When I asked her what other number she said I don't know. Then I find out she new about this other number 2 months ago. From another cell phone she had lost and then found and put it in a dresser draw. It's the lying about not knowing and playing stupid. She did admit to talking dirty.