Someone will... sometime it takes a little while to get "found" by a person that thinks they have something to offer.
What I'm reading is that you are trying to decide if you "should" be upset over an issue that is over and done with. If it was an issue. Am I reading that right? So, it seems like the question is one for you. Do you trust her? You say you are having trouble trusting her since she never gave you a reason not to except this. That seems backwards. If she never gave you a reason not to, maybe you give her the benefit of the doublt on this one. She seems to be doing everything you ask, at this point.