Keeping someone in the house may be good for the DB beginner....now? Unh unh.

We can't tell you what to do but H certainly gets to do what he wants, no? How many more months do you want to live this way? How does H view you? What message should H get? I disagree with glamgirl. Detaching will be easier. He will be faced with reality. Again, is it time for an LRT. Michele doesn't tell you to languish while your H is abandoning you.

BM...do you have a marriage now? You can still treat H à là Glamgirl while he is out of the house.

FIB

Last edited by faithisbelieving; 01/23/09 04:39 AM.
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;