okay now that I see your posts and his meaning, forget a long response. I mean, "okay"...seems fine to me. Let him work on figuring out what you mean.
Besides, his actions speak more clearly than anything he says. And his choosing to do nothing is a choice; and he knows by your words and actions what that will mean. But the choice to do nothing is his answer, and he's responsible for that. Also, you said having d4 was his choice.
You may not realize it now, but she's the best thing you'll ever have done. And try to see her as the Godsend she is, not a ball and chain. You'll never regret having her in your life though she's more labor intensive now than she will be later. You are lucky to have her.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
