I'm glad you are doing okay. This stuff takes a lot out of a person. I wouldn't worry too much about the lanuage barrier. It appears that you are doing fine, especialy with the invitations to dinners and parties.
I agree...the relationship sounds like it's just about fizzled out. Is she going to leave the stud out of her nose or try to get someone to put it back in. Someone certainly is trying to tell her to leave it out. I'm still chuckling over that one.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
