What a piece of work! I could have a few choice words for that HO. Your xh didn't write any of those emails....she did. She's feeling insecure and yet she's wanting to rub your nose in what she's got.
Sounds to me like she's nothing be trashy woman and your xh will one day see her through clear classes and not the rose colored ones.
Do yourself a favor and do not send any more emails unless you absolutely have to. I think she was hoping you would slip up and say that you found a new love as well. She's baiting you because she wants info from you. Don't go there.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
It sounds like to me (my opinion only) that things aren't that great in HO land! Why would she email out of the blue like that??? Snodderly is right, she is so insecure. When things started going south for my H and the ow is when she started calling me!!!
forgive me but I shared a bit of your story with s22, due to his own "R" issues. And he said, "There's 0% chance that the woman who wrote that, is normal or kind or not emotionally disturbed..."
You know nlt, it's only a matter of time before your h sees the truth, unless he's really off his rocker. I'm not saying he'll be willing or able to come back to you, but I cannot imagine him not seeing this behavior as pathological. It is.
Anyhow, thought I'd pass s22's commet on to you. Sometimes young men do think straight. (And I raised him!)
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