Hi Amy and snodderly,

Actually he did ask my D if I was still with "that man". And when she told him I was, he just looked down. I think he would have asked for my number if he had heard something different.I will defintely not take him back now. I am just so happy that he is trying to connect with the kids. That is just so important for them. They sure did miss him. Oh he will have to do alot of bending and he will give me alot more respect than ever before.
Thats even for me to talk to him again. The good thing is that I moved to another state so I can not just run into him and fall under that damn spell I fell into yrs ago. I am alot stronger now than ever before and I know what I want and what I will get.

Thank you so much for your comments. Its kind of hard trying to talk to any one in my family and I really dont have alot of gf's being I moved. So I knew I had to come back here where I could get the answers I needed. I wish you all well in your journeys. It is hard and frigthening at times but if you are strong in heart you can do it....Thank you!!!


Anything good in life is worth waiting for!
Take care of you!


H-43
W-52
M-6/21/90
LU-NIL-7/03
M/OUT- 7/03
Found out @ OW-7/03 (was involved before the move out)
D- 6/23/05 (married 15 yrs- together 17 yrs)