I was thinking at lunch about how we approach our wives.Everytime we pursue, push , talk about the relationship, we are making them think about why they want to remove us from their lives.They take a step forward, the more we push, the more forward they move. My case is a perfect example of how this works.When I bring up anything concerning divorce or any aspect of our situation, my wife will move forward, maybe only a step or two , but she does move forward.
When I leave her alone, and I mean leave her alone, she stops thinking about us and she just lives her life.Once in awhile she will cycle around and talk about the situation on her own. That is the exception and not the rule.As long as I don't remind her of the negative side of the relationship she just goes on about life without much change. I know all spouses are different, but I thought I would throw that out.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
