So my story is this. Last September I read some text messages on my wifes cell phone from her friends husband. The one I read that made it all sound like they had been having an affair was my wife texting him back. "I'm not doing this anymore, I really enjoy you and if circumstances where different than Hell Yes! but that wasn't the deal" As I asked what that meant she said that he was flying home because he is always on the road traveling for work and needed a ride from the airport to the ferry so he could get home because his pregnant wife couldn't drive the 3 hours to pick him up. As I found out later they had been texting for 4 months before I happened to look on her cell phone one night because our 2 yr old son had found it while my wife was out with our 4 yr old daughter. I read things that just didn't sound right. He had been living out of the state until he and his wife had moved back in August. She swore on our children that she hadn't seen him since they moved in April. She hasn't spoken or seen him and no longer keeps a tight friendship with his wife anymore due to me feeling hurt when they talk. Since I told her it hurts me she doesn't make an effort to answer her calls or return her calls. I guess I'm really confused of what to think. I'm having a real hard time trusting my wife again since I never had a reason until now to not trust her. I feel that if I can't get passed all distrust that I may ruin my marriage. My wife's really head strong. I can give more info if you need to make a better judgement but I'm at my wits with all this.
