Thanks SC, but I dont have the nerve to do that! But I do have to do something. My h would be really pissed and probably run to file. When I didnt tell him our plans for Thanksgiving (since he didnt ask and assumed we'd stay home, he was pissed and thats when he told me he was really leaving.

But it would be a huge 180 for me to stop being such a freakin
wuss. Really. It's embarrasing. Ok, I have to stop thinking about it right now - I am turning red!

I wish we could all meet - wouldnt that be great?