I will temper my responses keeping your advice in mind. This week I have backed way off only making minimul contact. I don't answer every message or phone call. She said she is going out this weekend to look at houses, but she said it doesn't mean any thing. She says one day she wants to be by herself the next she's not sure.
She suggested that if I pay her off and buy out the house could she live in the house for six months. I said that would be awkward. She then suggested she rent for six months to figure out what she wants. I just told her that it was her decision. I tried to be confident. She also asked me if I was dating, I told her no (I dont't want to be vaugue or lie about that because it would give her the way out she is looking for.) I said that I wasn't ready to be a partner for anyone just yet and that I was working on me, hanging out with friends and family. (GAL)
She was quiet and I ended the conversation. I don't know if this means anything but I am still going to stick to my plan and not tell her specifics and am going to be gone for most of the weekend. Later she texted me aobut how good our interst rate is and later called but I didn't pick up. I figure if it was important she would leave a message.
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June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
