I don't get it. Have to read more of the posts but the 2nd paragraph SEEMS to be saying you may want to remarry someday but he doesn't want to be married, which I assume means he wants a divorce? Or is he saying that the legal status of your m is something you may want to address later or clarify and for now he's fine with things as they are, which is what?
3rd paragraph says he wants to make things better....what things? The M? Your ability to have a civlized conversation? WTH is he saying?
now I'll go read your other posts but had to say I'm puzzled as to the wording...confusing...wacky. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016