Yes we've all been through a version of your situation last night. I would actually say you shouldn't have your wife reading DR, because that's your playbook to get her back. But if she's reading it and is positive about it then I guess it's alright.
What happened last night was just a backslide. Don't dwell on it and move on more positively. You can't change what happened, all you can do is lessen the damage and make things light.
It worked in my interactions with my W. They weren't immediate, but they built up positively over time.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
