A few years ago we would nominate MLCers for their "wackiest" moments and it got pretty funny. I think we may have to come up "nerviest OP" awards now...just for "Debbie".
I cannot fathom why she felt she needed to say anything to you at all. I mean, did you ever say anything to her first, like "ho, stop commiting A," or did you tell her you loved your h and didn't want to lose him and that it broke your heart? Any type of prior contact?
If not, then this is truly both inexplicable and despicable. Honestly, when I put myself into a "selfish all about me and what I want now " state of mind, I still like to believe if I married someone else's h, I'd probably say something like "sorry, but we just fell in love and didn't meant to hurt anyone, couldn't help it, blah blah blah, so absent that, I really don't get the need to say anything, I mean I wouldn't say a word to an ex gf of my h, let alone a WIFE I had stolen him from.... WTH?? It's literally shameless.
I can't believe that this behavior isn't something that will be someday revealed to him in some form. Keep a copy of the emails though, b/c your xh ought to know, someday what torture this idiot psycho tried to put you thru. And I DO believe she'll show this side to him, eventually. Hopefully she won't actually harm him physically but these notes are so weird and unjustified... again, WTH??? j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
