Read other posters posts. Identify with others, form friendships and a support group here. You get that by posting to others, they usually post to you. Trapt, Jeff, Jimbo are realtively new and good guys, usually better to find others close to your time here as well.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK