Not everyone is the same. Two people doing the exact same thing might not have the same outcome.

Smurf moved into an unheated attic.

Jack kicked his wife out.

Neither of us knew what would happen after that.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet