Stop saying 'but' in your head as a reason you think you have to do something.
When you know that the something is wrong, or not good.
If you knee jerk respond, then you should be counting to 10 before everything you say to her, and evalute what you hope to accomplish in the conversation.
She is saying she is numb. She is highly likely being honest. My wife said that to me. Cold, numb, unemotional, dettached.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
