Ral, Jack was pretty nice this time around, in the beginning, when I screwed up, COG drove me into the ground with his 4x8, I used to 6' tall, now I am only 5'8"!!. Jack is correct in that most men cannot pull this off. It takes alot of self control, patience and time.You have to get it out of your head that you can have any control on what she does or says or you being able to help her through it. You can't. Stop trying. NO more excuses, get to work on you, this will make it easier.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
