Am I eternally hopeful or in denial....?

[Silent Chrleader]

Sometimes I wonder if being the "first love" is part of the problem for them. My H has said that he thinks he jumped at the first girl who made him feel special because he was afraid that he wouldn't get another opportunity!

They never got to sew their wild oats!

I also read somewhere that MLCers often struggle with the idea of why should they be held for life to a promise they made when they were teenagers and had no idea what their promise really entailed!