So now you have an understanding of why you don't have 'relationship' talks.
You are aware of all the wrong things you did, at least you say that you are. Are you going to learn from this in the future?
Have you come to realize that you and your wife are not unique, that you aren't going to discover a secret quick fix that no one else here has found?
Needless to say I understand the feeling hopelessness after making mistake after mistake and not seeming to be able to stop myself from opening my stupid mouth.
Everything that just happened was either something you learn from and do not repeat, or you don't learn from and well, kind of pointless then.
You have hit just about every trap we have tried to warn you about, and now you see why we were warning you.
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I still love you but , I know you don't want to hear this.
Nice use of guilt.
The word 'but' is just an excuse to invalidate everything that came before it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
