So after he created himself a profile and emailed me at that site, of course all hell broke loose...
That was not a good decision for a woman who had cheated on her husband to make. I cried, explained, cried some more, got pissed... the whole nine yards. He told me that prior to that, he had spent the previous 2 weeks thinking about coming home - and that he was going to - but then he saw the profile. So I got a separation agreement instead of reconciliation.
It needs to be said that in all the time that has passed since that ridiculous event, my husband and I have grown a lot closer and we've talked about it. He actually has teased me about it recently. He knows what I intended. And I understand what he SAW.
Lesson learned.
I actually appreciate the opportunity to tell the story again because it makes me realize just how much farther I, and WE, have come since August of 2006 when that happened.
When it all went down, I did come here and admit to everyone what I'd done. And I took the 2x4s. But they were nothing compared to the personal cost I paid.