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I think you are 100% right on that one!


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It's a plan! I am forcing myself to take 5 minutes later to make an appt. Michelle - I know you mentioned going for a massage recently. Mind if I ask where you go? I know that Massage Envy place is popular but unfortunately OW's kid works the front desk there. Or she did last time I knew anything about her.. and I don't know which location. Somehow I don't think seeing her would reduce my stress levels so much!

ooh... or if I can't think of one locally, I could drive down to Napa and go to the spa there... hmmm...


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Rose is in an alternative health center at 2701 I St. I'll e-mail you her contact info. She charges about $1 a min. But if you want I have a $10 off coupon for her!


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$1 a minute's not bad at all! The place in Napa was $100 for 50 minutes. Thanks for the email / contact info.


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Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
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wow Nik, the same thing happened to you a year or so ago. I'm very glad you are able to keep your job, but I know it sucks to lose good co-workers, and especially it can make you feel bad for being the one to stay and they don't. But there are a ton of layoffs everywhere, my dad just got laid off and he was there for over 25 years.


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EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
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H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

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$1 a minute's not bad at all! The place in Napa was $100 for 50 minutes. Thanks for the email / contact info.


NikB,


Just to let you know I am not a masseur... but I played one once...50 cents a minute.....

Well the camper is loaded and son and I are off when he gets out of school. Rain and all.

Got a movie to watch on the lap top, Have some board games and some jiffy pop popcorn....

Ya got mail BTW
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NikB,

You OK? Hope all is well with your job and R.

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haha only 50 cents a minute eh? And you probably wouldn't torment me like the lady at Mellow Me Out did. OMG!! This will sound sexist but I had no idea that womens' hands could get THAT strong. I kept asking her to be gentler overandoverandover again, but it still hurt like he!!. At least my back knots are gone.

Michelle, I will definitely be hitting up Rose instead next time!

At least the manicure and pedicure were very, very nice and relaxing. ahhh.

Things are going OK. Still employed, which is good. Still handling 2 full time jobs, which is not so good... boss and I are working on it though. They also laid off the other person who could have helped me... and the ONLY other person who knew the same job just resigned yesterday. It is pretty funny how everyone's totally kissing my butt now though.

R/M is going OK.. not good, not bad at the moment. We barely see each other with all the hours I've been working! But made it a point to go on a date last Friday night, and have two nice dinner/movie/fire nights at home Sat. and Sun. First time in awhile we've really done things for our M... which felt really nice.

Will post more soon.

Hope everyone's doing well.


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Glad you are making time for the M. Just that fun time can be so necessary.

Glad to hear the knots are gone even if it was a painful process.


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glad you got a little M time. and that must be really tough with the workload. they better give you something good for that!


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
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H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

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