Thanks A, I went to the therapist's this morning with W. I didn't bring up the text. I didn't even bring up the house. We talked about what to tell the kids and when. We spoke about how bad our communication is. How I don't listen to W. I was able to do it all without too much emotion. Arthur, you are right about moving forward. I'm convinced now that there is an OM and as shocking as that is at least I don't have to wait anymore to find out. I will try to process this new information. I think your word shock is right. It isn't as sad as the rest of it. It also gave me a little inner strength as if I knew some secret. So is there a way to adjust my actions now that there is an OM? Keep on DBing? Got to call the mediator. Thanks again, L
Me 41 W 39 d7, s4 M 13 Bomb ILYBNILWY November 28th, 2007
