Developments! Love to see developments, don't you??
It is a shame your children are struggling but the fact is children DO struggle in these situations, especially the 'undecided' situations b/c it allows them to dare to hope. I am not blaming you in any way I am just sharing how I feel about my own situation I guess...It is good he heard it from the teachers. I know you had mentioned several months ago that you didn't always want to be the one to bring up the kids because you didn't want him thinking you were using their emotions against him.
