I still haven't gotten served yet, but for whatever reason, thought I would do an online search. Sure enough, I found her filing - couldn't see anything other than a case number but still very depressing.
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13